posted by Gerard Duplest on Mar 28

{Sex toys provide you with an excellent feeling to enjoy virtual sex without getting infected with AIDS or any other STDs. Sex is a biological need for every man and woman, which is literally impossible to avoid. Many males & females do not get their sexual desires fulfilled only by having sex, due to which, they rely on using sex toys. These instruments satisfy their body and are normally of very attractive looks. These instruments are known as sex toys. It is your first time, or you are a veteran user, these tips would definitely help you in overcoming your fears with sexual instruments:~Without getting infected from dangerous diseases like AIDS, and STDs (sexually transmitted diseases) sex toys help you in gaining maximum pleasure that you cannot attain from normal sex. Although sex is a naturally biological need of every living being on this planet, not all males & females get completely satisfied with sex. With the ghost amount of precision, sex toys are instru ments designed to enhance the sexual pleasure of a male or female. Dildos and vagina flashlights, are designed in a natural way to give the real look & feel as if having sex. To help you in better understanding the sex toys and their usage for the first time ever, read the following tips:~Many times when females don’t get satisfied with natural sex form their sex partners, they often get frustrated in attaining the maximum level of satisfaction. One good way in getting rid of sexual dissatisfaction is by using sex toys that are specifically designed to improve sexual pleasure. However, using any sex toy for the first time could be a very frustrating or painful experience. By carefully following the below mentioned tips, you can greatly reduce your pains and enjoy sexual pleasure derived out of these instruments:}

{Understand the nature of the sex toy – At times, dildos could scare you when you open unpack them for the first time. Moreover, companies don’t even take the liberty of providing an essential training manual on how to use one.~Understanding nature of toys– Every sex toy has its own nature. Dildo, and vaginal flashlights are made in a myriad of models, shapes, and sizes. It is better to choose the one most suitable for your pleasure that you can easily handle.~What are these toys made for?– Every sex toy is made up of different nature and purpose. Dildos are used for vaginal penetration, whereas vaginal flashlights are used for penile penetrations. It is in the best interest to first understand the nature of these toys and then buy them according to your mode. A plethora of colors, sizes, and models are available in the market and you need to select the most suitable one for yourself.}

{Clean them up! – Whether it is a dildo or a vagina torch light, it is essential to clean them in luke warm water with some baking soda so that any or all chemicals could be removed off them and you can use them easily to enjoy sexual pleasures.~Always wash before usage– Since toys are made of plastic, there are chances of their condemnation using dangerous chemicals. It is advisable to always wash them in warm water with baking soda, or soap to get rid of all chemicals present on their surfaces. This would help you in getting complete peace of mind by using these toys.~Wash them up– Any toy to be used specifically for inserting in your body, should be carefully washed first. This is important as toys are made up of plastic and other chemicals that if not washed properly, could cause vaginal infections. Therefore, it is imperative to wash them with warm water and a perfumed soap.}

{Proper lubrication – The bad thing about sex toys is that they are not self-lubricating in nature, unlike the penis and the vagina. It is of pivotal importance to use as much lubrication as possible to make sure that there is minimum amount of friction while you play with them. Many dildos and vagina flashlights do not easily penetrate, due to which is important to use an oil based lubricant like perfumed hair oil.~Lubricate them as much as you can– Unlike the vagina and the penis, which are self-lubricating in nature, sex toys need artificial oil based lubrication to give you maximum sexual pleasure. It is compulsory to lubricate these toys as per your requirements to gain maximum sexual pleasure and reach the ultimate level of orgasms.~Oil up the toys! – Just like motor oil is important for effective functioning of the motor, similarly oiling up the toy is also important to get maximum sexual satisfaction. Use only oil based lubricants so that they don’t stick with in your vagina.}

{Get sexually aroused – Just like it is important to warm up for any physical activity, it is equally important to get sexually aroused before using any sex toys or you would not be able to enjoy them.~Warm up – Have you ever enjoyed sex without getting warmed up? I bet you haven’t. As a result, it is important to get sexual aroused and warm up before using the sex toys so that you can gain maximum sexual satisfaction. Feel relaxed, as time is all yours!~Get sexually warmed up– Getting sexually aroused is very important to get maximum sexual satisfaction. Ladies, do not rush taking the dildo all in without first getting it lubricated to reduce friction. If you don’t do so, you would end up having vaginal disinfection. Moreover, you would have a very painful experience in inserting the dildo.}

{Take it real slow – Do not rush entering the toy in your vagina. Remember, the complete freedom to control dildos and other sex toys, is in your hands. Take deep breaths, and push inside slowly, perhaps half an inch at a time. The deeper you breath, the better the chances of getting aroused and enjoying fun.~Do not rush!– Vagina is a sensitive area, and unlike the penis that hardly damages it, if you use sex toys in a roughly manner, you could end up getting your vagina swelled. Do not rush at all. Make sure that the toy is properly lubricated and enjoy it as if you would with your sex partner.~Keep it slow– Ladies, police isn’t going to catch you! Feel relaxed, lubricate the toy and insert it slowly. Do not rush in inserting the entire dildo in any way or you would not gain maximum sexual satisfaction. Play with it any way you like. Deep, shallow, fast or slow, as long as you are aroused, you would enjoy!}

{Work out till you are done – Keep using the couples sex toy to your desired level of satisfaction. It is advisable not to exceed a single moment when you start feeling pain or swelling in or near your vagina~It is hoped that the above tips help your understanding in better using the female sex toys for the first time.~There is no general rule of thumb, when it comes to using vibrating sex toys. The key is to have fun, relax and listen to your body.}

posted by Vixen's on Mar 11

Kinds of Lube

Type of lube

Virtually all lubes on the market today fall into one of three categories:

1- Water-based;

2- Silicone-based; and,

3- Oil-based

Each of these has their advantages and disadvantages. For most situations though, water-based lubes are by far the most popular.
Water-Based Lubes

Water-based lubes are just that: water-based. Their main feature is that they’re smooth and slick, but not sticky and messy like silicone and oil-based lubes can be.

Since they’re water-soluble, skin and mucous membranes will absorb them. This makes cleanup a breeze: just a little warm water, maybe some soap, and the lube will easily wash off the skin. (And the sheets)

However, it also means that you might have to periodically reapply it, depending on how long you have sex for. This is one of the chief drawbacks of water-based lube, since we all know that in the heat of the moment, an interruption is probably the worst thing that could happen.

Water-based lubes also have the added advantage of being completely condom-compatible (oil-based lubes corrode latex and cannot be used with condoms — more on that later). One thing to watch out for, however, is that many water-based lubes contain glycerin, which can promote infections in women pretty easily. So make sure your girl cleans up right away after using one.

Popular water-based lubes include:

Astroglide: Maybe the most popular water-based lube out there. It’s on the thin side, but nice and slick, and long-lasting. It’s also available in many drugstores, which is convenient. If you’ve never used lube and are just looking to try something out, Astroglide is a great place to start.

Maximus: This is some heavy-duty stuff. Very long-lasting and very thick, this is the lube you’d use if you needed, well, maximum slipperiness. For this reason, it’s popular for anal sex. Maximus is what you want to use if you really need to grease up good.

More water-based lubes, silicon-based lubes, and an oil-based lube designed solely for masturbation.

O’My: If you’re a health nut, this is a great lube for you: it’s completely organic, but doesn’t sacrifice functionality. If you’re worried about all the chemicals in other lubes, O’My’s the way to go. Overall, it’s similar to Astroglide.

Wet: This one is almost as popular as Astroglide, but Wet is a bit thicker. It’s also available in various flavors — perfect for when you need some added slickness for oral sex.

Slippery Stuff Gel: According to the rumor mill, Slippery Stuff was originally designed to help divers get in and out of tight wetsuits. Somewhere down the line, though, someone discovered that there was a far more interesting use for this wonderful lube. It’s thick and very long-lasting, but gets somewhat stringy as it dries. Slippery Stuff Gel is, overall, a pretty good middle-ground between Astroglide and Maximus.

KY Jelly: The world’s most famous water-based lube, KY frankly isn’t the best. It dries up quicker than better-quality lubes, and gets tacky as it dries. I do not recommend it. KY, actually, was designed for medical use. That is, it’s designed to facilitate easy entry, and clean up quickly. I suggest that you stick to lubes that are designed for sex.

Silicone-based lubes

Silicone-based lubes are similar to water-based lubes, but are generally much greasier and last much longer, despite having a thinner texture. In fact, that’s their main advantage: silicone-based lubes take ages to dry out. No muss, no fuss, no need to reapply.

What’s more; you can actually use them in water and they’ll still work. They’re not quite as easy to clean up as water-based lubes, though. Those who don’t like silicone-based lubes say that using them is like having motor oil slathered on your bits. Others swear by it.

Popular silicon-based lubes include:

Wet Platinum: By the makers of Wet, naturally, this is high quality and very long-lasting.

Eros Bodyglide: It’s almost identical to Wet Platinum, but more expensive.

ID Millennium: ID Millennium is a good lube, but not quite as smooth as Eros or Wet Platinum. It’s still a good choice, however.
Oil-Based Lubes

Oil-based lubes are… well, you just shouldn’t use them. Why? First, they corrode latex, so you can’t use them with condoms. Second, they’re bad for your woman’s vaginal health in a variety of ways. And finally, they’re slimy and messy. Seriously. Baby oil, Vaseline, Crisco, Massage Oil, etc., are known for their lubricating properties, but using them is just a bad idea. However, there is one oil-based lube that I can let slide.

Men’s Cream: This is an oil-based lube that I think deserves special mention. Why? It’s probably the first product ever designed specifically as a lube for male masturbation. Say goodbye to weird scented hand lotion and all that garbage. If you’re of the millions of guys out there who needs something to make his solo flights nice and smooth, I highly recommend Men’s Cream. Just don’t use it for penetration.
Slippery When Lubed

Most sex stores will carry at least a few of the brands mentioned here. There are also many online sex stores that will carry these lubes and more. Also, Astroglide, as previously mentioned, can be found in many drugstores.

Lubes can also help prolong lovemaking sessions, make your own masturbation sessions better. It’s also required for anal sex — an activity that’s becoming increasingly common among couples.