posted by Gerard Duplest on Mar 28

{Sex toys provide you with an excellent feeling to enjoy virtual sex without getting infected with AIDS or any other STDs. Sex is a biological need for every man and woman, which is literally impossible to avoid. Many males & females do not get their sexual desires fulfilled only by having sex, due to which, they rely on using sex toys. These instruments satisfy their body and are normally of very attractive looks. These instruments are known as sex toys. It is your first time, or you are a veteran user, these tips would definitely help you in overcoming your fears with sexual instruments:~Without getting infected from dangerous diseases like AIDS, and STDs (sexually transmitted diseases) sex toys help you in gaining maximum pleasure that you cannot attain from normal sex. Although sex is a naturally biological need of every living being on this planet, not all males & females get completely satisfied with sex. With the ghost amount of precision, sex toys are instru ments designed to enhance the sexual pleasure of a male or female. Dildos and vagina flashlights, are designed in a natural way to give the real look & feel as if having sex. To help you in better understanding the sex toys and their usage for the first time ever, read the following tips:~Many times when females don’t get satisfied with natural sex form their sex partners, they often get frustrated in attaining the maximum level of satisfaction. One good way in getting rid of sexual dissatisfaction is by using sex toys that are specifically designed to improve sexual pleasure. However, using any sex toy for the first time could be a very frustrating or painful experience. By carefully following the below mentioned tips, you can greatly reduce your pains and enjoy sexual pleasure derived out of these instruments:}

{Understand the nature of the sex toy – At times, dildos could scare you when you open unpack them for the first time. Moreover, companies don’t even take the liberty of providing an essential training manual on how to use one.~Understanding nature of toys– Every sex toy has its own nature. Dildo, and vaginal flashlights are made in a myriad of models, shapes, and sizes. It is better to choose the one most suitable for your pleasure that you can easily handle.~What are these toys made for?– Every sex toy is made up of different nature and purpose. Dildos are used for vaginal penetration, whereas vaginal flashlights are used for penile penetrations. It is in the best interest to first understand the nature of these toys and then buy them according to your mode. A plethora of colors, sizes, and models are available in the market and you need to select the most suitable one for yourself.}

{Clean them up! – Whether it is a dildo or a vagina torch light, it is essential to clean them in luke warm water with some baking soda so that any or all chemicals could be removed off them and you can use them easily to enjoy sexual pleasures.~Always wash before usage– Since toys are made of plastic, there are chances of their condemnation using dangerous chemicals. It is advisable to always wash them in warm water with baking soda, or soap to get rid of all chemicals present on their surfaces. This would help you in getting complete peace of mind by using these toys.~Wash them up– Any toy to be used specifically for inserting in your body, should be carefully washed first. This is important as toys are made up of plastic and other chemicals that if not washed properly, could cause vaginal infections. Therefore, it is imperative to wash them with warm water and a perfumed soap.}

{Proper lubrication – The bad thing about sex toys is that they are not self-lubricating in nature, unlike the penis and the vagina. It is of pivotal importance to use as much lubrication as possible to make sure that there is minimum amount of friction while you play with them. Many dildos and vagina flashlights do not easily penetrate, due to which is important to use an oil based lubricant like perfumed hair oil.~Lubricate them as much as you can– Unlike the vagina and the penis, which are self-lubricating in nature, sex toys need artificial oil based lubrication to give you maximum sexual pleasure. It is compulsory to lubricate these toys as per your requirements to gain maximum sexual pleasure and reach the ultimate level of orgasms.~Oil up the toys! – Just like motor oil is important for effective functioning of the motor, similarly oiling up the toy is also important to get maximum sexual satisfaction. Use only oil based lubricants so that they don’t stick with in your vagina.}

{Get sexually aroused – Just like it is important to warm up for any physical activity, it is equally important to get sexually aroused before using any sex toys or you would not be able to enjoy them.~Warm up – Have you ever enjoyed sex without getting warmed up? I bet you haven’t. As a result, it is important to get sexual aroused and warm up before using the sex toys so that you can gain maximum sexual satisfaction. Feel relaxed, as time is all yours!~Get sexually warmed up– Getting sexually aroused is very important to get maximum sexual satisfaction. Ladies, do not rush taking the dildo all in without first getting it lubricated to reduce friction. If you don’t do so, you would end up having vaginal disinfection. Moreover, you would have a very painful experience in inserting the dildo.}

{Take it real slow – Do not rush entering the toy in your vagina. Remember, the complete freedom to control dildos and other sex toys, is in your hands. Take deep breaths, and push inside slowly, perhaps half an inch at a time. The deeper you breath, the better the chances of getting aroused and enjoying fun.~Do not rush!– Vagina is a sensitive area, and unlike the penis that hardly damages it, if you use sex toys in a roughly manner, you could end up getting your vagina swelled. Do not rush at all. Make sure that the toy is properly lubricated and enjoy it as if you would with your sex partner.~Keep it slow– Ladies, police isn’t going to catch you! Feel relaxed, lubricate the toy and insert it slowly. Do not rush in inserting the entire dildo in any way or you would not gain maximum sexual satisfaction. Play with it any way you like. Deep, shallow, fast or slow, as long as you are aroused, you would enjoy!}

{Work out till you are done – Keep using the couples sex toy to your desired level of satisfaction. It is advisable not to exceed a single moment when you start feeling pain or swelling in or near your vagina~It is hoped that the above tips help your understanding in better using the female sex toys for the first time.~There is no general rule of thumb, when it comes to using vibrating sex toys. The key is to have fun, relax and listen to your body.}

posted by Vixen's on Mar 11

Kinds of Lube

Type of lube

Virtually all lubes on the market today fall into one of three categories:


1- Water-based;

2- Silicone-based; and,

3- Oil-based


Each of these has their advantages and disadvantages. For most situations though, water-based lubes are by far the most popular.
Water-Based Lubes

Water-based lubes are just that: water-based. Their main feature is that they’re smooth and slick, but not sticky and messy like silicone and oil-based lubes can be.


Since they’re water-soluble, skin and mucous membranes will absorb them. This makes cleanup a breeze: just a little warm water, maybe some soap, and the lube will easily wash off the skin. (And the sheets)


However, it also means that you might have to periodically reapply it, depending on how long you have sex for. This is one of the chief drawbacks of water-based lube, since we all know that in the heat of the moment, an interruption is probably the worst thing that could happen.


Water-based lubes also have the added advantage of being completely condom-compatible (oil-based lubes corrode latex and cannot be used with condoms — more on that later). One thing to watch out for, however, is that many water-based lubes contain glycerin, which can promote infections in women pretty easily. So make sure your girl cleans up right away after using one.


Popular water-based lubes include:


Astroglide: Maybe the most popular water-based lube out there. It’s on the thin side, but nice and slick, and long-lasting. It’s also available in many drugstores, which is convenient. If you’ve never used lube and are just looking to try something out, Astroglide is a great place to start.


Maximus: This is some heavy-duty stuff. Very long-lasting and very thick, this is the lube you’d use if you needed, well, maximum slipperiness. For this reason, it’s popular for anal sex. Maximus is what you want to use if you really need to grease up good.


More water-based lubes, silicon-based lubes, and an oil-based lube designed solely for masturbation.


O’My: If you’re a health nut, this is a great lube for you: it’s completely organic, but doesn’t sacrifice functionality. If you’re worried about all the chemicals in other lubes, O’My’s the way to go. Overall, it’s similar to Astroglide.


Wet: This one is almost as popular as Astroglide, but Wet is a bit thicker. It’s also available in various flavors — perfect for when you need some added slickness for oral sex.


Slippery Stuff Gel: According to the rumor mill, Slippery Stuff was originally designed to help divers get in and out of tight wetsuits. Somewhere down the line, though, someone discovered that there was a far more interesting use for this wonderful lube. It’s thick and very long-lasting, but gets somewhat stringy as it dries. Slippery Stuff Gel is, overall, a pretty good middle-ground between Astroglide and Maximus.


KY Jelly: The world’s most famous water-based lube, KY frankly isn’t the best. It dries up quicker than better-quality lubes, and gets tacky as it dries. I do not recommend it. KY, actually, was designed for medical use. That is, it’s designed to facilitate easy entry, and clean up quickly. I suggest that you stick to lubes that are designed for sex.


Silicone-based lubes

Silicone-based lubes are similar to water-based lubes, but are generally much greasier and last much longer, despite having a thinner texture. In fact, that’s their main advantage: silicone-based lubes take ages to dry out. No muss, no fuss, no need to reapply.


What’s more; you can actually use them in water and they’ll still work. They’re not quite as easy to clean up as water-based lubes, though. Those who don’t like silicone-based lubes say that using them is like having motor oil slathered on your bits. Others swear by it.


Popular silicon-based lubes include:


Wet Platinum: By the makers of Wet, naturally, this is high quality and very long-lasting.


Eros Bodyglide: It’s almost identical to Wet Platinum, but more expensive.


ID Millennium: ID Millennium is a good lube, but not quite as smooth as Eros or Wet Platinum. It’s still a good choice, however.
Oil-Based Lubes

Oil-based lubes are… well, you just shouldn’t use them. Why? First, they corrode latex, so you can’t use them with condoms. Second, they’re bad for your woman’s vaginal health in a variety of ways. And finally, they’re slimy and messy. Seriously. Baby oil, Vaseline, Crisco, Massage Oil, etc., are known for their lubricating properties, but using them is just a bad idea. However, there is one oil-based lube that I can let slide.


Men’s Cream: This is an oil-based lube that I think deserves special mention. Why? It’s probably the first product ever designed specifically as a lube for male masturbation. Say goodbye to weird scented hand lotion and all that garbage. If you’re of the millions of guys out there who needs something to make his solo flights nice and smooth, I highly recommend Men’s Cream. Just don’t use it for penetration.
Slippery When Lubed

Most sex stores will carry at least a few of the brands mentioned here. There are also many online sex stores that will carry these lubes and more. Also, Astroglide, as previously mentioned, can be found in many drugstores.


Lubes can also help prolong lovemaking sessions, make your own masturbation sessions better. It’s also required for anal sex — an activity that’s becoming increasingly common among couples.

posted by Vixen's on Feb 28

Misuse of Condoms are a Global problem.

Not only in the US but globaly couples are not using condoms right. Sex and condoms goes hand and hand right?

Reported last week, A new study published in the journal of Sexual Health provides a global picture of condom use, based on 50 articles representing 14 countries. Led by the Kinsey Institute Condom Use Research Team, researchers from around the world compared notes on condom habits and issues, including the use of female condoms in South Africa and counterfeit condoms in China.

The most common errors included not using condoms throughout sex, not leaving space or squeezing air from the tip of the condom, putting condoms on upside down, not using water-based lubricants, and incorrect withdrawal. Other problems included breakage, slippage, leakage, and difficulties with fit and feel.

The misuse of condom use is on the rise.  Then number of confirmed STD’s are also on the rise,  coinsidence I think not.

Condom 101: How to use a condom Consistently and Correctly.

Here are some guidelines from the CDC on How to use a condom Consistently and Correctly.

  • Use a new condom with every act of vaginal, anal and oral sex throughout the entire sex act from Start to Finish.
  • Before any genital contact, put a condom on the tip of an erect penis with the rolled side out
  • If the condom does not have a reservoir tip, then pinch the tip enough to leave a half inch space for semen to collect.   Holding the tip, unroll the condom all the way to the base of an erect penis.

    The Reservoir of a condom

    Keep a Reservoir for the semen collection

  • After ejaculation and before the penis gets soft, grip the rim of the condom, and carefully withdraw.  The gently pull the condom off the penis, making sure that the semen does not spill out.
  • Wrap the condom in a tissue and throw it in the trash where others will not handle it.
  • If you feel the condom break at any point during sexual activity, stop immediately, withdraw and remove the broken condom and put on a new condom.
  • Ensure that adequate lubrication is used during vaginal and anal sex, which might require a water based lubricant.  Oil-based lubricants (ie, petroleum jelly, shortening, mineral oil,  massage oil, body lotions and cooking oil) should not be used because they can weaken latex, causing breakage.  This is the same for non-latex condoms.

When you think of it at somepoint in your lifetime you have had one or the other go wrong.

Also, think about using a non-latex condom if you have had the proper STD screening and are with the same partner in a monogamous  relationship.  The possibility of someone developing a latex allergy or having on is on the rise as well. There are many different types of lube to choose from water and silicone are the most popular.

Next week: Choosing a personal lubricant.




posted by Vixen's on Feb 11

Liza Oz does an interview for her new  book “US”.  She talks about the three Major relationships we have Love, Familial and Friendship. I hope you find it as interesteing as I did.

posted by Vixen's on Feb 10

Perfect Boyfriend Gift – No Hassel Tips For Getting It Right


Have the perfect boyfriend? Looking for the perfect boyfriend gift? Well, you don’t have to look any further than right at your boyfriend.

You see, gift giving doesn’t have to be a hassle. It doesn’t only have to be a night of sex and lingerie either. When you want to surprise your guy with something special, something out of the ordinary, the best place to look is at what your boyfriend likes to do.

If you give it some thought I’m sure you can think of some great, and unique gifts for your guy. Just figure out what he likes and then try to find something related to that.

If he loves sci-fi why not get him some free movie passes to the next big sci-fi blockbuster. If you’ve got a little bigger budget you may be able to find him a movie poster or something else related to his favorite movie.

It might take a little effort on your part but that’s what can really make a gift special, knowing that someone went a little out of their way just to make them happy.

Does your guy love sports? If so getting him front row tickets to his favorite teams next home game can be a great gift. If you can’t afford expensive sporting tickets, you might get him a jersey from his favorite team, or a poster (preferably signed) of his favorite player.

If your guy is into wines you can always surprise him with a great bottle of wine, or take it up a notch and sign him up to a wine of the month club (there is probably a beer of the month club too, in case your guy is more of a beer drinker).

If your guy likes to play poker or to gamble once in a while a trip to a casino can make a great gift for both of you. Most states have some sort of casino in them so you wouldn’t even have to go all the way to Vegas or Atlantic City.

And of course some of you have guys that are a little more ‘high brow’ and enjoy things like concerts and plays. If so, you’ve already got many gifts ‘built right in’.  Getting season tickets to your local theater or concert tickets for his favorite orchestra are both great gifts.

It doesn’t matter what your guy loves to do, just figure out the things that he enjoys and find him something that is related to that activity. A lot of men would love a hot night with you and some sexy lingerie, but they may also enjoy doing other things with you.

Your guy would probably love nothing more than to spend time with you doing what he loves to do. So, the next time you get him a gift of hockey tickets, plan on going with him. That can be the best gift of all.

Since I don’t know him, it’s hard for me to tell you what the perfect boyfriend gift would be. But hopefully, I’ve given you some ideas of things that may be just perfect for your guy. As long as you keep in mind that the gift is for him, and base the gift on what he likes to do, you can’t go wrong.

posted by Vixen's on Feb 9

How To Be Romantic With Your Girlfriend

Do you need a refresher course on how to be romantic with your girlfriend? Well, then, listen up. I know that in the beginning of the relationship everything seemed to come so easily. Everything was candlelight and roses and you could do no wrong in her eyes.

How did it all change so quickly? You do not have a clue do you? Well, somewhere along the line the romance stopped and life got in the way. The candlelight turned into a 100 watt bulb in the ceiling and the roses shriveled up and died.


Now, if you should happen to remember to send her flowers, she is going to think you have some ulterior motive or you have done something you need to apologize for. I know you do not believe that but trust me, I am right. This bouquet of flowers will not help you one teensy tiny little bit. She will be too suspicious to take them for what they were intended, a romantic gesture.

If you do not want her to be suspicious, take this how to be romantic with your girlfriend advice to heart. If you want to send her flowers do not send them to her work place, especially if she works with a lot of other women. The others will plant the seed of doubt and she will probably be angry with you by the time she gets home.

The New Romance

So, have them waiting on the table for her along with the nice little dinner you prepared, or if you can’t cook, at least bought with her in mind. Turn off that 100 watt bulb in the ceiling, light those candles again; have romantic music playing softly in the background and a nice bottle of wine opened and breathing.

Treat her like a queen when she gets home. Kiss her ever so softly on the lips to greet her then, take her coat and briefcase and put them away for her. Sit her in a chair and remove her shoes, giving each one of her feet a little rubdown with the promise of more later. Tell her to go get freshened up and have the new lingerie you bought her hanging in the bathroom for her to put on.

When she is ready, pull her chair out for her at the table and serve her dinner. Make conversation by asking how her day was and listen as she tells you all about it. Even if you do not understand what she is talking about. Always listen. Make eye contact and touch her hand or arm during dinner. Tell her how beautiful you think she is and always will be in your eyes.

After dinner lead her to the sofa, bringing along the rest of the bottle of wine and glasses to the living room and fulfill the promise of a complete foot rub, including toes, ankles, and calves. She will undoubtedly be putty in your hands at this point and only now can you relax a little and be confident that you know how to be romantic with your girlfriend.

posted by Gerard Duplest on Jun 23

{Sex toys are obviously for adults, and it all makes sense because sex is the way adults play. But who knew that my coffee date would lead me to my discovery of these items, and what a breakthrough this was.~Adults play in their own way, and for many adults this means sex. Sex toys are aptly named as the kind of toys that adults play with and who would have believe that a simple coffee date would lead to my discovery of these fascinating aids.~Sex it the way that adults play, but in the past this fun activity ahs been taken far too seriously. Then came the sex toys, an it had a bad rep for being a toll used in porn movies, this is no longer the case, these are mainstream items now, and my discovery of them came from a coffee date.}

{To me, a “coffee date” has always been a euphemism for more than just a date, made to seem innocuous. However, it has become the acceptable euphemism for meeting anyone for the first time and when a new person recently came into my life, I agreed to this “coffee date” even though I don’t drink coffee!~“Coffee Date” has always had a strange connotation for me. I find the over-use of this euphemism a little odd, perhaps because I have never appreciated the fine art of coffee drinking. I would rather have a beer in a bar or a cup of green tea. But today if you want to meet people you have to be prepared for the “coffee date”.~When people say to me, “let’s meet for coffee” it always makes me feel strange – why coffee? Is coffee more respectable than beer, or is this just a nicer way of saying let’s meet up and see if we might like to shag? Who knows, but today a coffee date is an acceptable way to meet strangers.}

{It is strange how some people touch you sometimes, but when I met Gary, we clicked immediately. Initially the coffee meeting went well and we agreed to see each other again. After a few dates, definitely not coffee dates and a rapidly growing intimacy, we started to discuss the possibility of taking our relationship to the next level, another euphemism for “sex”.~When Gary and I met on our coffee date, we immediately clicked, and I didn’t really go with an open mind, but there you have it. Soon we were actually “seeing” each other and a growing sense of intimacy started to pervade our relationship. We were definitely taking things to the next level, and pretty quickly too.~If I was going to get any dates at all I realized that the inevitable “coffee date” was going to have to be kept and this is how Gary and I met. Fortunately we clicked straight away and I have to admit when I met him, drinking coffee was furthest from my mind. All I could think wa s – “oo, I would like to shag you”. So we started seeing each other and things soon got serious.}

{When we spoke about this I was a little shy at first but he was so open and honest that it all seemed quite natural. He then brought up the subject of Sex toys and I shyly admitted that these had never really been big on my agenda, although I wasn’t averse to trying them, my previous relationship had just not been very sexually adventurous.~Soon our conversations turned to sex and I actually felt quite comfortable speaking with him about this. I had not really ever been this open before but he made me comfortable and soon the conversation led to Sex toys. Not something I had ever contemplated or been very adventurous about.~It didn’t take long for us to start talking about sex, and like the mature adults we are we discussed it in depth before we actually tried it. He was easy to speak to and I felt comfortable, he also brought up the subject of Sex toys; not something I had really got into before.}

{In fact it was totally boring and this was one of the reasons why I had seen fit to call it a day!~My last relationship wasn’t terribly sexual and in fact, this was why I had given up on it and allowed it to die a slow and painless death.~The last relationship I had was not very adventurous and I had been previously married to a selfish pig.}

{The long and short of it was that right from the start Gary and I were honest with each other and when we did get sexually active, we immediately started to explore the possibility of sex toys.~From the very word go, Gary and I hade embarked upon a journey of discovery together and from this honesty, we launched out exploration of sex toys. It is hard to believe that a subject like this could be meaningful, but it is.~Gary and I had a pretty whirlwind romance and it was, and still is, filled with adventure. It is honest and open and the exploration of the world of adult play including the introduction of sex toys has actually been great fun as well as meaningful}

{He is definitely of the new generation of men who believe that women should be pleasured before the male partner gets his satisfaction. We had some pretty good and very funny shopping sprees.~I was lucky to find Gary, a man who understands that it is important for a women to also be sexually fulfilled in a relationship. Out shopping sprees for sex toys were, in fact still are a lot of fun.~I consider myself incredibly lucky to have found Gary, he is a modern man with modern views on female sexuality and this for me is refreshing. Shopping for sex toys has become just as much fun as experimenting with them.}

{First we started looking online, and then I heard about adult party plan and how much fun it was for all the girls to get together to buy plastic ware of a different kind. My girlfriends and I have all hosted a couple of these parties and as well as adding to our collection of sex toys, we have made a lot of new friends.~I was a bit shy in the beginning and didn’t fancy walking into a sex shop, so we shopped online. Then we discovered a new way to add to our collection. Adult party plan! I have hosted a few parties and grown a whole new circle of like-minded friends, as well as added to my collection of adult toys, lingerie, lotions potions and all kinds of goodies.~Although I was a little shy at first and would only order these adult toys online, things have changed since I discovered adult party plan. I met and agent and hosted a function and a lot of things changed. I have made a lot of new girlfriends too and we take it in turns to host parties and stock up on sexy items.}

{What really surprises me is that a simple coffee date, that I was completely skeptical about in the first place, has led me to this exciting new place in my life. My circle of friends is growing, my relationship with Gary is growing into love and is on an incredibly even and very satisfied keel; and all because of a cup of coffee, a bit of honesty and some great adult fun!~It’s amazing the changes in my life, all from a little bit of honesty, a coffee date and a handful of sex toys. I am kept satisfied and happy, Gary is kept satisfied and happy and I have a load of satisfied and very happy friends too , we all have such a good time together.~The changes I have experienced have been pretty amazing, I now have a rapidly growing collection of sex toys, role play outfits, lingerie, potions and lotions, as well as a great relationship with Gary and a host of new friends. All because of a coffee date and sex toys; who would have thought?}

posted by Gerard Duplest on May 24

{Bid adieu to humdrum monotonous sex with this fantastic guide that tells you exactly what you should get. These are 72 tips that will definitely unleash the carnal animal in both you and your partner!~Say goodbye to ordinary, everyday lovemaking. This wonderful 72 step guide will show you how to make the most of your efforts and how to get the best rewards!~No longer will you have to endure, boring lovemaking. Just by following these 72 exciting tips you will gain that extra knowledge that will ensure you blow your and your partners minds.}

{The Bare Necessities~The Real Basics~Start At The Beginning}

{1. Make sure you get colors right. Colors can set the mood for a great sexual experience. Red is a wonderful color of passion. Set the mood with this color.~1. The colors you choose to surround yourself with during your lovemaking can have more of an impact than you could possibly imagine. Red is the universal color of passion, and always a good color of choice.~1. Ensure your surroundings reflect the passion you are feeling. Colors play a very important part! Red is always a great selection.}

{2. Encourage your partner to remain at the outward end as much as possible. According to a survey conducted by Masters and Johnson and several other studies, it is the outside one-third of the female vaginal tract that is the most highly responsive to sexual stimulation. So, instead of going in deep, just shallow surfacing is good for a satisfying experience for you.~2. A research survey done by Masters and Johnson has shown that the outer areas of a woman’s vagina is the highest erogenous zones on her body, so teasing and tasting this area is sure to work up both her and you.~2. Ask your partner to tease you around your vagina, and to only penetrate slightly.As most women know, to be teased is just as important as being pleased.}

{3. Do not become predictable with your sex. Try different options each time. Why get fixated with the bedroom? You could try different venues, different times, go on a holiday, etc. It helps bring the newness in your sexual experience.~3. Introduce new ideas to your lady, such as having sex in places other than the bedroom. The shower is always a good place to start, then as you both get more adventurous, maybe outdoors?~3. Don’t become complacent about the location your lovemaking takes place in, variety really is the spice of life. Try the kitchen table or the kitchen bench. Not only will you find your lovemaking more intense, it may seem like a whole new experience.}

{4. Have you ever contemplated sex in the bathtub? The bathtub has an erotica of its own and that is the reason so many movies have bathtub scenes and some of them even have bathtub sex scenes! Well, don’t shoot this idea unless you have tried it!~4. An exciting idea is to book a hotel room for the night. Make sure this hotel room has a large bathtub. So many movies feature a sex/lovemaking scene in a bathtub, so why not give it a try.~4. Sexual intercourse in water is an intense experience and one that should not be missed. This can be achieved anywhere, a bathtub, pool or spa. You have seen the scenes in the movies, now it is your turn.}

{5. Make oral sex a part of the routine. This is a really great way to arouse your man and then get the favor reciprocated in kind. Some vibrating machines can add to the excitement of oral sex. These machines can be connected to the tongue and lead to some very exciting sensations.~5. Mutual oral sex is a wonderful part of foreplay or even a good substitute for full sex. There are even vibrating toys available that you attach to your tongue enabling you to go that little bit further.~5. Oral sex is a great way to explore your partner and will get him highly aroused. It is always good to have the favor returned as well. If you are looking for that little bit extra, you can try the vibrating toys that attach to your tongue.}

{6. Sex needn’t be just about sex; you should know that. Make things interesting. How about playing a very sexy game like strip poker or something like that which adds to the passion and serves as a wonderful prelude to a night full of sex? Search the Internet for more such sex games.~6. The whole process of sex doesn’t have to be just about the intercourse. It can also be a lot of fun and you can learn a lot more about your partner if you involve things like games. There are a lot of great adult board games out there, or just a fun little game of strip poker would do.~6. Make your experience about more than just the act of sex. Make it entertaining, draw it out. You can search the internet and find multiple adult games you can play. If you don’t have time to do the research first, how about a sultry and fun game like strip poker?}

{7. Women are perennially complaining about not coming to their orgasms. Well, there are things that could help. One of the ways you could do this is to place a pillow below the butt which raises the vaginal area to an optimal position. This is a great position for getting the most optimum contact of the penis with the clitoris, always helping in reaching earth-shattering orgasms.~7. The most common complaint from women is that they don’t get to achieve orgasm most of the time. There is a position that may help her get to the pinnacle of passion. Try placing a pillow under her buttocks, this raises the vagina to a better position and helps aid in the penis to clitoris contact.~7. Are you often left behind during sex? Has your man finished ling before you even reach your highest peak? Here is just one little hint that may help you get there a little quicker. Place a pillow under your lower back, this places the vagina in a much better position.}

{8. A very interesting way to have sex would be if the man sits on top of a washing machine. Seriously! A washing machine can give some great vibrations that add to the thrust factor. The woman should then clamber over the man and allow the man to penetrate her while he is still on the machine.~8. Has it ever crossed your mind to try sex on the washing machine? It should definitely be at the top of your list of things to try. The man should be seated on top of the machine while it is in action, the woman should then sit upon the man, either facing him or away from him.~8. Sick of housework? why not make it fun, put your washing machine to much better use! Have your man sit upon the working machine then straddle him. The vibrations coming off the machine and through your man will make this one hot experience.}

{9. If you are doing this washing machine thing, you need to select a mode that gives you a long time for enjoyment. Something like a longer wash cycle will really help.~9. Just remember to make sure the machine is on a long wash cycle. Nothing breaks the mood easier than being done too soon.~9. Make sure you put the washing machine on a long wash cycle. You make find it helps to have something heavy in the wash cycle, such as towels as they will cause the machine to move more than it would if empty.}

{10. If you love your dildo vibrator then sex toys when you are alone, don’t be shy to admit it to your partner. In fact, there are so many interesting ways in which a dildo vibrator can be made an important part of the couple sex adventure. Your man can look at various ways to arouse you through foreplay and a dildo vibrator could be a great sex aid.~10. If you like using sex toys such as vibrators, butt plugs or butt beads, don’t be afraid to let your partner know. If these things excite you then they are likely to excite your partner as well. The more aroused you both are, the more intense the experience will be.~10. If you regularly use a vibrator or other sex toys, do not be afraid to let your partner know. You want to be sure that you both get the maximum pleasure from your experience and if a vibe gets you off then that is what you should use. You will find that your partner is just as excited about it as you are.}

{11. Conversation is the key to romance and good sex. Don’t turn on the mute button when you are having sex or it makes things too mechanical. Talk about each other’s bodies. Speak about your man’s penis; he likes to hear about what he has. Talk dirty to him; if you do it correctly, most men will love it.~11. The most important thing is communication. If neither of you vocalise what turns you on, how will you ever know how to please each other? Ask her what she likes, and make sure you tell her what you like. Always let her know how sexy you think she is, if you let her know this then she will feel and act like the sex bomb you know she is.~11. Never forget to communicate with your partner. You will never be left satisfied if you don’t let him know exactly what you want and where you want it. You must also ask him what he wants and how he wants it. He may ask you to do things that make you uncomfortable but you could always try it out.}

{12. Masturbate your man. This should be a definite part of foreplay and it makes his shaft so much harder. Try different things. Tie up his cock with your bra and masturbate it. Or rub his prostate while masturbating him. Such things immensely heighten the anticipation in men.~12. An incredibly important part of foreplay is masturbation. This helps your lady’s body to prepare for the act of intercourse, it also gets her incredibly horny. This can be done with either your fingers or a vibrator or dildo.~12. Get to know your man’s penis by masturbating him. Ask him what he likes or get him to show you how he masturbates himself. Men are just as different as women as how they please themselves. Once you have learned what he likes, you can then introduce other things like cock-rings.}

{13. Smell. The sense of smell is extremely important to good sex. Let your man smell you all over. You will love it when he rubs his nose against the different parts of your body and we aren’t just talking about the genitals.~13. Learn all the scents of your partners body. Slowly travel over her body inhaling the scent as you go, this will have an unbelievable effect on her. She will feel your breath on her body as you journey along her body.~13. The smell of your man is more exciting than you would think. During foreplay pheromones are released and can be quite arousing. Learn the smells of your man from head to toe. Just the act of you traveling up and down his body will have an effect.}

{14. There are certain things that you should feed your man; they can make his cum taste all the more better. A list of things you could include in his diet are lemon, cardamom, peppermint and cinnamon.~14. Believe it or not, what you eat can have an effect on how your sperm tastes, if you want your woman to enjoy oral sex then you need to make sure you taste good. Try eating things with lemon, cardamon, peppermint or cinnamon in.~14. Did you know that what a man eats can effect the taste of his sperm? If you want a more pleasant taste, get him to consume things with lemon, cardamon, peppermint or cinnamon in them.}

{15. While we are talking about food, stay away from garlic and onions if you are planning some sex later. They give your breath a foul taste and can put off your man.~15. Stay away from strong smelling foods like garlic or onions, not only do they make your breath smell, but can also exude from the pores in your skin.~15. Make sure neither yourself or your partner eat strong smelling foods like onions or garlic otherwise your may find yourself or him put off by the odour.}

{16. Garlic and onions can create further problems if your man has them regularly. They can give a foul taste to his cum and you won’t like giving him head. Some other foods that your man should avoid for this reason include asparagus and curry.~16. Onions and garlic can also effect the taste of your sperm, even if you ate them days ago. The same is also true for foods like asparagus, curry and chilli.~16. Your man’s diet is very important when it comes to the taste of his sperm, onions, garlic, asparagus, curry and chilli can all have a negative effect to the taste of his sperm.}

{17. Try outdoor sex sometime; it is really exhilarating. However, you have to be cautious to do it very carefully or you could be arrested J Try having sex in your own yard when night falls or on a lone highway when you are driving through.~17. Sex outdoors is always a thrilling experience. Be mindful of the laws though as this act is always frowned upon, which makes it even more exciting. If you are driving home late at night and there is no-one around, how about pulling over the car and having a quickie?~17. One thing you have to experience is sex outdoors. Just make sure you don’t get caught. Sex in your own backyard when the neighbors are away can be quite exciting.}

{18. If your man is too busy to have sex with you, you can effectively seduce him this way. When he is sitting on his chair, working, get below the table and start licking his cock through his pants. No man can resist that!~18. Does it seem like your woman is just too busy for sex? Try this little trick. Kiss the back of your ladies neck, slowly and sensually, then slide your hands up and down her body. This often works.~18. Do you have trouble getting your man’s attention when you want it? Is he often too busy to make time for you? How about this nifty trick to get his attention. Go towards him on your knees and with your hands behind your back, start licking his crotch through his pants. He won’t be able to resist for long.}

{The Right Sex Position Means a Lot~The Right Sex Position Means a Lot~The Right Sex Position Means a Lot}

{19. The missionary position is the most timeworn, most guaranteed position for a sex episode of night. It allows your man to penetrate you to the highest degree and leads to ultimate satisfaction to both of you.~19. The missionary position is the most used one for a reason, it is comfortable for both parties and enables a man to penetrate deeply.~19. The most common position is the missionary position. This is a comfortable position for both of you and also allows for kissing.}

{20. There is another reason for trying out the missionary position most of the time. When you are offering yourself to your man in the missionary position, your vaginal canal gets folded and becomes shorter. Though this gives you still the same amount of satisfaction, it allows the man to get better penetration. This actually panders to his male ego because he feels he has a bigger penis!~20. Another reason the missionary position is good is that it enables you to see your partners facial expressions, you will know just how much she is enjoying herself.~20. The missionary position also has a little secret. When you are laying on your back in this position, your vaginal canal gets folded and becomes shorter making your man feel he has a larger penis.}

{21. You could also try just letting your man lie on top of you, face down, when you are lying on a bed on your back. This position allows both of you to feel each other’s bodies to the maximum limit and creates the greatest degree of arousal.~21. Close body contact can be highly arousing, try laying fully on top of a woman without penetrating her. You will both feel the sensations of each others bodies.~21. Body to body contact is always highly erotic, try giving your man a body slide. Cover your front with oil or talc and slide up and down his body.}

{22. Ride your man like a cowgirl. It is a great way to vary your sexual routine and a great way to arouse your man if he feels he is sapped out.~22. Have your lady ride you like a cowgirl. This is a great way to break the routing of the missionary position.~22. Be the one on top, take charge of your lovemaking and ride your man. You will feel empowered doing this and it puts you in charge of the speed of things.}

{23. Don’t think doggy style is too embarrassing. It is a wonderful pose if you are into anal sex. It also gives him great pleasure because this particular position squeezes his penis on the sides, which is quite a different feeling for him.~23. Doggy style is perfect for those who like anal sex or are just after something different. The feeling on your penis is a lot different in this position.~23. If you like anal sex or just want to do something a little different, try doggy style. A man get a much different sensation on his penis in this position.}

{24. Have you heard of the spoons position? Try it out. This is probably the most non-stressing positions of all. It only requires you and your partner to lie side by side in the form of a spoon and allowing him to penetrate you anally. You could also alternatively take his penis between your legs and masturbate him.~24. The spoon position is something that usually happens in the afterglow of sex. But why not try it as a sexual position instead? Enter your partner from behind, either anally or vaginally.~24. Try the spoons position, have your man lay behind you and enter you either vaginally or anally. Curling your knees up in this position can also have mind blowing effects.}

{25. In the spoons position, if you could just twist your body a little, you could allow for some great clitoral stimulation for himself. Your man could penetrate you vaginally.~25. The spoons position can also be used for mutual masturbation. Placing your penis between her thighs and rubbing back and forth is sure to excite you both, you will be rubbing against her clitoris as you do this.~25. Mutual masturbation is great in the spoons position. With his penis placed between your legs, his back and forth action will arouse your clitoris.}

{Table Manners & Sex!~Table Manners and Sex!~Table Manners – Sex!}

{26. There are many ways in which you can bring food into your sexual act and make things much more interesting. Ice-cream has a great reputation for that. You could try a wonderful experiment by sticking an ice-cream cone over his penis and then licking at the ice-cream on it. He will be totally turned on, for sure!~26. Food items can make unbelievable additions to sex. Ice cubes to tighten nipples, chocolate sauce for licking off bodies, honey for that sweet sticky sex. If it is in your fridge or pantry, you can probably use it during sex.~26. Bring food items into your erotic experience. Sweet sticky items like chocolate sauce and honey are great. Try licking a lollipop and then rubbing it up and down his penis then licking it off.}

{27. Grapes and ice cubes can be great fun. Run them along each other’s bodies and feel the cold sensations tingling all over.~27. Fruit is also an exotic sex addition. Fresh mangoes can be rubbed on each other. Strawberries can be fed to each other.~27. Fruit and vegetables can also be a lot of fun. If you are both game for it, things like carrots or bananas can be inserted into various orifices.}

{28. This is another sex-citing game. Paint lines on your man with a black marker pen in a paint-by-numbers kind of pattern. Then dab different kinds of ice-cream flavors on the different regions that are formed. Ask your man to call out different numbers and you go ahead and lick the ice-cream from that particular area. This can turn real hot! Don’t forget to ask the man to return the favor.~28. A kinky little game you can play is bedroom bingo. Paint squares on her body using body chocolate or body paints. Number the squares then fill each one with a different type of food. Get her to call out the square number and then you have to eat what is on there.~28. Try this sexy little bedroom game. Paint 12 squares on your man’s body. Number each square and then put a different item of food in each square. Get him to call out a number and then you have to eat that item without using your hands.}

{29. Cucumber can make for a very fun experience too. Cool it down completely, then cut it into half and rub it on each other’s bodies. Cucumber has special effects when rubbed on the genitals—you have to just check out these experiences.~29. One of the most exciting vegetables has to be the cucumber as it has a very phallic look to it. Make sure the cucumber is very cold before using it.~29. One of the most phallic looking vegetables has to be the cucumber and if you have an extremely cold cucumber, the effects on both you and your partner are unimaginable.}

{30. Alcohol can do some nasty things as well. Try pouring some on your partner’s body in all the right places and then licking it off. You could try some flavored alcohol to make things more interesting.~30. Alcohol is also a great sex tool, and no, not drinking it. Bubbly champagne tickles if poured on a naked body.~30. Sweet tasting alcohol should also be used as a sweet treat. Try pouring a little bubbly champagne on your man and then licking it off.}

{31. You might have seen so many movies where couples seduce each other by sliding ice cubes down their bodies. Well, you could try that too. Or, to make things more interesting, you could try sliding down stuff like frozen berries.~31. Instead of the old usual sliding ice cubes up and down each others body, why not use frozen fruit instead? This will leave a sweet sticky trail for your tongue to follow.~31. Ice cubes can be great fun, but why not liven it up with something a little out of the ordinary? Try using frozen berries or frozen fruit instead.}

{32. Have you heard of the sex and chocolate catchline? There’s really something to it. Chocolate has a range of chemicals that can set your hormones racing in the right direction. And better still is cheese. Sit and eat chocolate and cheese together in your prelude to sex and you will see some great things happening. Just remember to use dark chocolate.~32. A good chocolate is better than sex? There is something in this saying as chocolate has a range of chemicals in it which leave a lot of people in a state of bliss. Cheese also surprisingly has a lot of similar chemicals in it. These should definitely be included.~32. Are you one of those that think a good chocolate is like good sex? Well you are right. Chocolate has many ingredients in it which stimulate the same regions as sex does. Chocolate is a must in any good romp. Cheese also includes a lot of similar chemicals and should not be forgotten.}

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{33. Want some early morning sex with your man? The best way to seduce him with the right breakfast is to give him cereal with almonds and lots of apple added to it. Try it; it always works.~33. Did you know that a great kick start to any morning sex session is a cereal with almonds and apples? Give it a try.~33. If you want your man ready to go first thing in the morning for an early session, give him a good kick start with cereal with almonds and lots of apples, it really works!}

{34. There are several mood foods for sex. Avocado is one. Try it out.~34. One of the best mood setting foods out there has to be avocado.~34. A great mood food to try is avocado.}

{35. And when you are talking about the right alcohol to set you in the right sexual mood, then what can be better than some champagne? Swirl it some in your mouth and then let it go inside slowly. And when the champagne is in your mouth, you can actually interlock tongues with your partner and make things so very hot.~35. Champagne was mentioned before as something to pour over your lover but it is also good as an aphrodisiac when drinking it. The taste of a kiss with champagne is wonderful as your tongue tingles when you drink it making your tongue extra sensitive.~35. As mentioned before, champagne can be a great sex aid, but it is also good to drink. It makes your tongue tingle and therefore makes it more sensitive when kissing. Try holding a small amount in your mouth and then swallow it just before kissing your man.}

{36. Always keep some good mints ready. This is handy advice because you don’t know when you will be kissing someone and that could lead to a great experience to remember for a long time.~36. A good hint is to always keep some breath mints handy. You never know when you may find yourself about to kiss someone.~36. Make sure you always have some breath mints close at hand, as you never know when the need will arise.}

{Unleash Your Passion~Unleash the Passion~Unleash Passion}

{37. You must have heard that all men like to be masturbated by their women. When doing so, don’t be too gentle on him; he won’t like it. Jack his rod in a vertical back and forth direction without bending his penis. Keep a firm grip but don’t bend the penis too much. He will like it this way. You could also ask him to masturbate in front of you and you can do it too and learn from each other J~37. When it comes to having your woman masturbate you, make sure you tell her exactly what you want as most women think they will hurt their man if they grasp too tight, so if you like it hard and tight let her know.~37. Most men love it when their woman masturbates them, but make sure you always ask him exactly what he wants. It might surprise you to find most men like their penises to be held very tightly during this.}

{38. Allow him to deep throat you. When he does that, the head of his penis touches the back of your throat and gets some electric sensations. You can easily deep throat your partner if he stands and you take his cock in your mouth in a kneeling position with your head slightly tilted backward.~38. If you want your woman to deep throat you during oral sex, you must take it slow and steady to begin with otherwise all you will end up with is vomit on the end of your penis. The best position for you both to be in is you standing and her on her knees in front of you.~38. Try giving your man a thrill be deep throating him. This takes a bit of practice but can be enjoyable for you both. Place yourself on your knees in f}

{39. Most women aren’t expert at deep throating. They find it painful and uncomfortable. If you feel that way too, then you can at least get the head of his cock to rub against the roof of your mouth, i.e. the palate. Keep a very firm grip on the portion of his penis shaft that is outside your mouth.~39. Most women wont know how to deep throat you or will have had bad experiences in the past. Be patient and if she really doesn’t like it, try just rubbing the head of your penis on the roof of her mouth.~39. Most women don’t know how to deep throat. It can be painful and often uncomfortable. If that is how you feel, you could at least rub the head of his penis against the roof of your mouth, i.e. the palate.}

{40. You might have heard a lot about licking his cock as though it is candy or something but that’s not always the most ideal way to do it. He would like a little rough touch. You could give him some great rubbing with your lips and even use your teeth very, very gently occasionally. He would like that.~40. A lot of women think that a man likes to have his penis licked up and down like a lolly. This isn’t always the case and if it is something you will have to tell her how you want it.~40. When it comes to performing oral sex on your man, don’t think that licking it up and down like an ice cream is what he wants, some guys like really rough oral sex so it is always best to ask him first.}

{41. Now, don’t just make it too mechanical. Don’t go on sucking so very predictably that he begins getting bored. Vary your style a bit. Make some noises. Hold his penis in different ways and suck on it. It will be fun for him, and therefore for you as well.~41. If your woman is boring at oral sex and just sucks up and down on your penis, try giving her some lube to rub on your penis so she can slide her hand up and down as she sucks away.~41. Just sucking up and down on your man’s penis can actually be quite boring for him, try rubbing the base of his cock with your hand as you suck away on the head.}

{42. Put on some great music. Mood music is what is called for. This will help him relax, focus his mind completely on the task at hand, quite literally so, and will help him get more satisfaction out of what you are doing to him.~42. Music is a must during sex. It helps to relax you and your partner and also helps you to focus on the task at hand.~42. Mood music is what is called for. This will help you both relax and focus completely on each other, and will help him get more satisfaction out of what you are doing to him.}

{43. Don’t let yourself be fooled by stories that men don’t like their anuses explored. They do. But you have to initiate them into it. The best time to do that is when you are giving them oral pleasure. Slide your finger in his ass slowly and gradually work it inside. You could lubricate your finger to do this easily. When inside, start wiggling your finger. He will find it highly pleasurable because you are directly targeting what means the most to him—his prostate.~43. If you like having your anus explored, don’t be afraid to ask. If your lady is a little put off by this, try using a slim vibrator, dildo, anal toy or even a candle. Have your lady give you oral sex as she slowly inserts the item into your anus.~43. Don’t be fooled by stories that men don’t like their anuses explored. Most of them do. But you almost always have to be the one initiate it. The best time to do it is when you are giving them oral sex. Slowly slide your smallest finger in his anus and gradually work it inside. Lubricate your finger to do this easily. When it is inside, start wiggling your finger. He will most likely find it highly pleasurable because you are directly targeting his prostate which is highly sensitive.}

{44. Another great idea is to watch some porn when you are having it off. Actually, make this the prelude to your sex-capade. Sit close to each other and watch his penis slowly grow as he gets into the porn. This is when you take over. If you make your right move at this time, he is going to give you back in the best possible way too.~44. Watching pornography during sex can be beneficial to both parties. You can both learn new positions to try and it is a good way to get each other highly excited.~44. Viewing pornography together before sex can be very arousing. See if you can both sit through a whole movie watching other people fuck without jumping each other.}

{Carnal Pleasures with Animal Positions~Carnal Pleasures and Animal Positions~Carnal Pleasures – Animal Positions}

{45. Do you know how gorillas do it? These big animals actually spend very little time in the real sexual penetration part of it. But they have a very long foreplay in which they mostly groom each other. You can do this whole ritual as well. Give each other a bath, scrub each other’s back and so on. You will feel the heat coming on!~45. Have you heard how gorillas do it? These huge animals actually spend very little time in the actual sexual penetration part of it. But they do have a very long foreplay in which they groom each other. You can do this ritual as well.Have a bath together, get each other all soapy and slippery and so on.~45. Gorillas do it. But these great animals spend very little time on the real sexual penetration part of it. They do have a very long foreplay usually spent grooming each other. This is a ritual you can do too. Have a bath, wash each others back and so on. You will soon feel the heat coming on!}

{46. Another animal that can teach you a lesson or two is the seal. Seals are known to be quite aggressive when having sex; they actually bite each other. Today, biting has been scientifically proved to be a great precursor to sex, because it stimulates blood in the area and makes it more sexually receptive. So, try some gentle biting.~46. Another animal that can teach us a lesson or two is the seal. Seals can be quite aggressive when having sex; they actually bite each other. Today, biting has been scientifically proven to be a great precursor to sex, because it stimulates blood in the area and makes it more sexually receptive. So, try some gentle biting, or some hard biting.~46. One animal that can teach us all a lesson or two is the seal. Seals have been known to be quite aggressive when having sex; they will actually bite each other. Today, biting has been scientifically proven to be a great sex precursor, because it stimulates blood into the area and makes it more sexually receptive. So, try some gentle biting.}

{47. And you could always take about the giant water bug, the male of who can go on with a sexual episode for as much as a day and a half without stopping! His male ego will definitely be aroused and he will want to go on longer.~47. And you could always talk about the giant water bug, the male of which can go for as much as a day and a half without stopping! A day and a half of non stop sex? WOW~47. Talk about the giant water bug, the male of which can go on asexual episode for as much as a day and a half without stopping! His male ego will definitely be aroused.}

{Get into Your Man’s Mind~Get deep into Your Man’s Mind~Get stuck in Your Man’s Mind}

{48. Try this out. When you are in the woman on top position, do an extra maneuver. Instead of going just up and down as most women in this position do, try going in a diagonal and sideways movement as well. This is going to be really great for your man and even you will feel him more inside you. Try it!~48. Try this . When you have your woman on top of you encourage her to move in other ways than just backwards and forwards, have her rotate her hips. Also have her slide up towards the tip of your penis and then back down til she is fully and deeply penetrated.~48. . When you are using the woman on top position, do a little extra maneuver. Instead of just going up and down as most women do, try going diagonally and sideways as well. This will be really great for your man and you will feel him more inside you. Try it!}

{49. Have some quick drying alcohol such as vodka ready with you. When you are into the mood for sex, take a swig of it and then lick him on the nipples and the nape of his neck. Then allow the vodka to dry. You could actually assist the whole thing by lightly blowing air on it. He is going to enjoy this to no end.~49. Have a quick drying alcohol like vodka ready with you. When you are in the mood for sex, take a swig of it and then lick her on the nipples and the nape of her neck. Allow the vodka to dry. You should assist the whole thing by lightly blowing on it.~49. Use a quick drying alcohol such as vodka . When you are in the mood for sex, take a drink of it and then lick him on the nipples and the nape of his neck. Allow the vodka to dry. You can assist the whole thing by lightly blowing air on it. He will enjoy this to no end.}

{50. If you are too shy to touch your man, go stand behind him, your nipples touching his back. Then bring your hands to his front and touch his cock and nipples and slightly masturbate him. Then gradually increase the force. He will enjoy that immensely.~50. If your lady is quite shy in the bedroom, have her stand behind you and press herself up against you, slowly guide her hands over your body, ending with her hands around your penis and show her how to masturbate you. she will find this much easier.~50. If you are too shy to just go ahead and touch your man, try standing behind him,with your nipples touching his back. Bring your hands to his front and touch his penis and nipples and lightly masturbate him. Gradually increase the force.}

{51. The classical girl wrap position is always a hit. You have to be athletic for that but it is worth the effort; you can allow your man to penetrate your fully.~51. The classic girl wrap position is always a sure hit. You have to be a bit athletic for it but it is worth the effort; you can allow your man to penetrate you fully.~51. A classical position is the girl wrap position and it is always a hit. You have to be quite athletic for it but it sure is worth the effort; you can allow your man to penetrate you fully.}

{52. Try keeping your shirt on! Literally! Some guys love the suspense of it all. They don’t want to see their women all naked all too soon. Give them a striptease and see how far it goes. You could also dress up specially for giving him a striptease. How about some leather boots? Ah, we are going into KinkyVille now!~52. Ask your lady to keep an item of clothing on, this can lead to huge suspense. Maybe she leaves on an item of underwear or a pair of high heel shoes or boots. Maybe suggest she give you a little striptease and then you tell her to stop before she strips it all off.~52. Try to keep your shirt on! Honestly! Some men just love the suspense . They don’t want to see their women fully naked too soon. Try giving him a striptease and see how far it goes. You could also dress up specially for giving him a striptease. How about some leather boots?}

{53. Another great—sorry, very great—thing for men is to give them a nice little licking when they are still limp. Just go under and give them some great swirls of the tongue and see how they harden up. This will be a great prelude to a great sexual episode. Plus, it also gives you the great confidence that you can make your man hard with just a few simple maneuvers.~53. Tell your lady that your greatest fantasy is to have her go down on your while you are asleep or when you have just woken up. Believe me, she will try it and neither of you will be sorry.~53. Another , very nice for you to do is to give him a nice little licking when he is still limp. Just go down and give him some gentle swirls of your tongue and see how he hardens up. This is a great prelude to a wonderful sexual episode. Plus, it will give you more confidence that you can make your man hard with just a few simple maneuvers.}

{54. If you want to have great sexual experiences every time, you will have to work on them some. Try these vaginal exercises known as kegels. These exercises can make the muscles in your vaginal area harder, which means a better sexual experience for both of you.~54. A great suggestion is to introduce your lady to some vaginal exercises known as kegel. These exercises tighten the vaginal and pelvic floor muscles and increases sensitivity in the vaginal region.~54. If you want great sexual experiences every time, you will have to work on it. Try some vaginal exercises known as kegels. These exercises make the muscles in your vaginal area tighter, which means a much better sexual experience for both of you.}

{55. Have you heard about Ben-Wa balls? These are not mere sex toys. If you use them regularly, you can actually make your vagina much harder and sexier.~55. Ben-Wa balls are not mere sex toys. If used regularly, your lady can actually make her vagina much harder, tighter and sexier.~55. Have you heard of Ben-Wa balls? These balls are not mere sex toys. If used t regularly, you can actually make your vagina much tighter, harder and sexier.}

{56. When you are thinking about oral sex, don’t just think about pleasing your man with your mouth. The peripheral things that you do are also important. You should use your hands as well. Use them to stimulate his nipples and his ass and his prostate while you are sucking him. No man can resist that.~56. When your lady is performing oral sex, don’t just allow her to please you p with her mouth. The peripheral things that she does are also important. You should use have her use her hands as well. Get her to stimulate your nipples and prostate while she is sucking you. No man can resist that.~56. When you are performing about oral sex, don’t just go about pleasing your man with your mouth. The peripheral things that you do are important. You should use your hands often as well. Use them to stimulate his nipples and his anus and his prostate while you are sucking him. No man will resist that.}

{57. Masturbation and oral sex become extremely important when you cannot have penetrative sex, such as when you are pregnant or going through your periods. Try looking up new ways for stimulating your partner through such techniques.~57. Masturbation and oral sex are extremely important when you cannot have penetrative sex, such as when your partner is pregnant or going through her periods. Try looking up new ways for stimulating your partner with such techniques.~57. Masturbation and oral sex can become extremely important when you cannot have penetrating sex, such as if you are pregnant or having your periods. Try searching for new ways to stimulate your partner through such techniques.}

{58. It is a myth that women come to orgasm only when they are penetrated. It is not important actually. A man can easily stimulate her G spot or clitoris and bring her to an earth shattering climax. Try educating your man on how to do this.~58. It really is a myth that women can orgasm only when they are penetrated. Penetration is actually not important . A man can easily stimulate her G spot or clitoris and bring her to climax. Try educating yourself on how to do this.~58. It truly is a myth that women orgasm only when they are penetrated. It is not important actually. A man can easily stimulate your G spot or clitoris and bring you to a climax. Try educating your man on how to do this.}

{59. You can use your bra or panties to great effect. Just take it off sexily and then tie it to his penis, at the shaft. This will really set him into another world. You can now make things more exciting by beginning to lick him all over. See how he gets hard, and keep pulling the garment tighter all the time so that he starts feeling more and more of the wonderful sensation.~59. Underwear can be used for more than one reason. Try tying her panties or stocking around the base of your penis like a cock ring. Get your lady to tighten it more and more as she performs oral sex on you.~59. You can use your bra, stocking or panties to great effect. Just take them off sexily and tie his penis, at the shaft. This will really send him into another world. Now make things more exciting by beginning to tease him all over with your tongue and your fingertips. Keep pulling the garment tighter so that he starts feeling more and more of the wonderful sensation.}

{60. Kinky is great for most people. Try it out. Tie up your man, and lick him all over. If he doesn’t like being done that, you could just hold him by the wrists and have him to yourself, just as you want it.~60. Ask your lady to tie you up and tease you senseless. This can be erotic for both of you as she is now in charge and very empowered. You will find a lot of her inhibitions disappear if she has you all tied up.~60. Kinky is wonderful for most people. Why not give it a try?. Tie your man up, and tease him all over. If he doesn’t like that, you could just hold him by the wrists and have him to yourself, just as you want it.}

{61. Men who are performing cunnilingus on their female partners, note this—the right movement is to swirl the tongue inside the vagina and then lick upwards. This really stimulates the clitoris.~61. When performing oral sex on your lady, the correct way is to swirl your tongue in the opening of her vagina and then slide your tongue upwards and flick it over the clitoris, some women also enjoy having their labia sucked.~61. When your man is performing cunnilingus on their you, make sure he knows the correct way to do it.The right movement is to swirl the tongue inside the vagina and then lick upwards. This really stimulates the clitoris.}

{62. Say it with mirrors! You will really love it when you see yourself and your partner in action. It makes things hotter.~62. Try making love in front of a mirror, the heightened sensation of watching yourself and your partner in the act is mind blowing.~62. Say it with mirrors! It is so hot to see yourself and your partner in action. Truly incredible.}

{63. You could go all out and try recording the whole thing on camera as well. The very idea that you are making your own porn movie makes most people come.~63. Why not make your very own porno? Having your very own sex film to watch can be one of the most exciting experiences you ever share.~63. You could go all out and try recording the whole thing on a camera as well. Just the idea that you are making your own porn movie makes most people come.}

{64. Try the sideways position when you are performing oral sex on your female partner. Let her lie on her side with one leg on the bed and the other leg hoisted in the air. You can see her clit in its full glory and she will be greatly aroused.~64. A wonderful position for oral sex on a female is to have her lay on her side and raise one leg in the air.~64. Try the sideways position when your partner is performing oral sex on you. Lie on your side with one leg on the bed and the other leg in the air.}

{65. Try massaging each other and then hug each other very closely. The oil can produce a truly magnificent sensation.~65. Why not massage each other with oil and then slip slide all over each other?~65. Why not try massaging each other and then hold each other very closely. The oil can produce a truly magnificent sensation.}

{66. Use your hands to great effect. When probing her vagina, make a come-here signal. This stimulates her highly sensitive upper vaginal wall and clitoris.~66. Find your lady’s G-Spot. The easiest way to explain it is if you slide your finger inside her vagina and then crook your finger back towards you, you will feel a rough little bumpy mound. That is the G-Spot~66. Show your man how to find your G-Spot and exactly how to stimulate it to the best effect.}

{67. Women, do the dishes naked. Men, sit on your computers naked. You don’t know how much you are turning on your partners when you are doing so.~67. Why not have naked night? As soon as you both get home, go about your normal routing fully naked. See how long you can keep your hands of each other for~67. Do the dishes naked. And ask your man to go about his normal routine naked too. You won’t know how much you are turning on your partner when you are doing this.}

{68. You could have some great excitement if you choose the right clothes and the right ambiance. Go shopping and buy some sexy lingerie, something that your partner hasn’t seen you in ever. Then set up some candles and either cook or order some great dinner. When he comes over, give him a surprise. It would set the right mood for a night full of fun.~68. Treat your lady to a night of luxury, cook her a nice meal, put her in a bubble bathe with a glass of wine and then wash her all over. Pamper her if you want her to pamper you in bed. Candles in the bedroom and bathroom are always a nice touch~68. Choose the right clothes and the right ambiance. Put on some sexy lingerie, something that your partner hasn’t seen you in before. Then enjoy a candlelit dinner . When he comes over, give him a surprise. It should set the right mood for a night full of fun.}

{69. Masturbation is quite important. You need to masturbate your man during foreplay. It sets the right mood for everything else that is to follow.~69. Foreplay is the most important part of sex, playing with each other sets you both up for a great night.~69. Masturbation is important. You should always masturbate your man during foreplay. It sets the right mood for everything that is to follow.}

{70. Don’t just use your hands. Hands are important, of course, but then you need to use everything you have got. Use your eyes to see your partner fully, use your nose to smell him, use your tongue to lick him and use your body to seduce him. That’s what makes great sex.~70. Use every sense that you have been given to enjoy your partner, the sense of sight, the sense of smell, the sense of taste and the sense of touch.~70. Don’t only use your hands. although hands are important, you need to use everything you have got. Use your eyes to see your partner, use your nose to smell him, use your tongue to lick him and use your body to seduce him.}

{71. Try some Brazilian wax on yourself. It makes you very smooth and that’s something every man enjoys.~71. have your lady shave or wax off all her pubic hair for a nice treat.~71. Treat your man to a nice smooth you, have your pubic hair shaved or waxed off.}

{72. Lie with your partner for long periods of time. Actually, you must lie on top of him, facing him, and gently rocking from side to side. Feel his hardness making you moist and that’s what makes him harder. That’s a great way to start out your sexual episode together.~72. Contact with your partner is the most important thing. Touching each other from head to toe. Discovering each others wants and needs. Enjoy every part of each other. This is what makes sex fantastic.~72. Close body contact with each other is going to lead to the most erotic experiences. Learn every little thing you man likes and needs and teach him the same thing about you. Explore each other with passion.}

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posted by Gerard Duplest on May 18

{It is strange that so small a thing can make such a difference to your life as I was to find that my marriage was not complete until I got my first vibrator. Female toys can make a huge improvement to your sex life, and once I discovered the orgasm, I realized just how important this was.~Such small things are able to make such huge differences in our lives. I found this out when I bought my first vibrator. This female toy has not only been responsible for me discovering the pleasure and importance of orgasm, it has also helped many other women too.~It was only when I bought my first vibrator that I realize what had been missing in my marriage. This small thing helped make my marriage complete – it is amazing what an orgasm or two can do, and how much female toys help.}

{Sex and marriage work hand in hand and gone are the days when women are expected to lie flat on their backs and not take any pleasure in this side of the marriage. This sort of thing can actually make or break a relationship.~Marriage is not only about the marriage of minds, it is about out bodies and souls also. Women are expected to understand and cherish these factors today. They are no longer expected to lie back like a concubine and not complain and participating fully in a marriage can be its making.~Modern marriages are not about wifely duties and not enjoying sexual contact. These are marriages of the mind, body and soul. Complete participation in a marriage partnership means that a couple must be able to fulfill each other completely and part of the deal is sex. We are no longer living in the dark ages as far as sexuality is concerned.}

{It is not only about the sex act, it is about being able to achieve a state of total intimacy and this takes a good deal of trust.~Total intimacy does not only mean sex and trust, but these factors play a large role in contributing to complete intimacy.~Complete intimacy means that sex and trust also play a role. If you can trust a man enough to have good sex with him, then you can trust him for anything.}

{I came across female toys completely by accident when a work colleague at another company sent me and invitation by email to an adult party plan party she was planning. Not having any idea what this was about, I agreed to attend.~My introduction to female toys came about by accident – I received and invitation to an adult party plan party. This was sent by a work colleague from a partner company and as we had a good working relationship, this was a good opportunity for us to get to know each other better.~I received an invitation to an adult party plan party and had no idea what it was all about at the time. Now I have been to loads of these parties and even hosted a couple myself just because I like female toys. A colleague sent me the invite and I only accepted it because I liked her and wanted to become friends.}

{When I arrived there was such a buzz in the room, the excitement was palpable and I asked Bev, what is this all about? When she told me I nearly dropped dead with fright, but she is a nice Christian girls so I was reassured. She told me that this would be great fun and I would learn a lot.~I arrived to find the atmosphere in the room palpable, the ladies who were already there exuded excitement. When Beverley actually told me what all the excitement was about, I was a bit nervous, but she told me not to be, it was all in the sprit of good fun, so I relaxed.~When I arrived at her home that Saturday, a lot of ladies had arrived before me and the atmosphere was thick with excitement. I still didn’t know what it was all about so Bev explained in and to be frank I was quite nervous.}

{She was right.~It was good fun, the girls were already having a good time.~After a drink or two I began to relax – everyone was having such a good time.}

{When the lady arrived and started unpacking all her goods, I have to admit I was fascinated. She gave a good and amusing talk and actually was very good at her job, explaining how her experience with female toys and potions saved her marriage. It was then I became concerned that my orgasm was definitely missing from my marriage.~When the adult party play lady arrived, we crowded around her – fascinated. Her talk was amusing, down to earth, original and educational. I learned from her that the addition of female toys to her marriage had saved it from dying a lingering death and this was good news.~We were fascinated as the adult party plan lady unpacked all her female toys, potions, lotions, underwear, role play outfits and novelties, and crowded around her like excited children around a magician. Her talk was funny, empathetic, inspiring and educational and I was suitably impressed enough to make a purchase.}

{My husband and I had spoken about it, but both being a bit ignorant about the importance of mutual fulfillment, had not really allowed it to bug us or pursue it any further.~My situation was different, but I could see that a couple of years down the line, I could be in the same boat. My husband and I had discussed the fact that sex did not really turn me on, so to speak, but although it didn’t bug me now, it might later.~She said that experimentation with female toys had saved her marriage and although mine wasn’t in trouble yet, I knew things could change quickly. I didn’t get that turned on sexually by my husband and this could be a problem.}

{She recommended that I purchase a bullet vibrator to start off with, reckoning that these items are the best way to introduce female toys into a relationship. She explained that they do not threaten the man as being a penis replacement and they certainly get the job done, so I ordered a powerful two bullet, waterproof unit and a big bottle of cherry motion lotion as well as a French maids outfit.~The bullet vibrator was her suggestion, she said it wouldn’t be intimidating to either my husband or my self and I purchased a waterproof model with two bullets, a French maids outfit for fun and some cherry flavored motion lotion.~On her suggestion I bought a small waterproof double bullet vibrator unit, a role play outfit (the French maid) and motion lotion. She told me that bullet vibrators are always the best female toys to get if it is your first attempt, they are not so intimidating.}

{I couldn’t wait for my goodies to arrive and I was unsure as to whether I should tell my husband or make it a surprise. I felt it best to talk to him about it, and he was awaiting the arrival of OUR package just as anxiously. Let’s just say it all worked out for the greater good, the rest is history and now I have a real marriage thanks to Adult Party Plan.~When I told my hubby about everything I had seen and heard at the Adult Party Plan party, as well as what I had ordered, he was as excited as me for the package to arrive. It did and we had a lot of fun experimenting with my new female toys. I am not going to go into detail, but I now have quite a collection of role play outfits, female toys and other stuff, and we now realize that sex is the way grown ups play.~When I shared all this information with my husband, he was very open and also really excited for my package to arrive. This was the first of many similar brown paper packages we have opened together and he sometimes say why don’t you order this or that, so I now have quite a collection. We play together now and sometimes it’s a game of Monopoly, but sometimes its also the police woman locking the bad boy up in handcuffs with no get out of jail free card we love Adult Party Plan.}

posted by Gerard Duplest on May 16

{Who would have ever thought that we would have to set up a swing to have sex. And although an adults swing is not an absolute necessity for everyone’s sex life, it is certainly a very welcome addition.~An adult swing, or sex swing if you like, is fantastic fun, remember that sex is the way adults’ play, so why not add a swing into the mix. It is definitely not a necessity, but if you have a bad back, this could make all the difference in the world to your sex life, and you may find that you didn’t know how you ever lived without it.~Sex is the way we adults play and it can be even more fun with an accessory like and adult swing. It is perfect for adding some excitement to your sex play and believe it or not, if you have a bad back, the swing is one of the least painful ways to have sex.}

{My first experience on a sex swing came about when I was writing reviews on sex toys. As I have always been gymnastic in nature, I thought it would be a fun addition to our box full of toys – so I showed him and he agreed.~My first adult swing experience saw a revolution come about in my sex life. I found out about these toys, when I was writing reviews of sex toys strangely enough, and when I showed my B/F, he agreed we should get one.~When I got one of these adult swings it revolutionized my sex life – I happened to find out about the swing when researching for sex toy reviews. I couldn’t believe it and showed the research to my boyfriend who was fully in agreement we should purchase one.}

{It makes life so much easier getting into more difficult positions, and no – you don’t need to be an athlete to use it. Once you are up there and relaxing, you can get pretty wild and this gizmo is brilliant for people with back pain.~I have already got a box full of toys and we like sex, but we are getting a bit older now and there is nothing quite as horrible as having your hip go into spasm, or your leg cramp while in the throes of passion. The adult swing helps avoid these difficult and often embarrassing situations from arising as we have found out to our abject pleasure.~I already have quite a collection of sex toys, so this adult swing was a very welcome addition. I am knocking on now and anything to make sex easier and more pleasurable is a blessing. It is awful to by lying on your back and caught up in the throes of passion when your hip locks or you get a cramp in your leg.}

{It has been featured on some late night shows and was even made the subject of a Sex in the City episode. Perhaps they should have renamed the episode "sex in the swing?"~A couple of late night shows have featured the adult swing, or sex swing and it was even made the highlight of one episode of Sex in the City.~The adult swing has been features as a very amusing anecdote in an episode of Sex in the City as well as on a number of late night TV "adult" shows.}

{The adult swing installs easily in a doorway and when I received my I couldn’t wait to get it hung. I am not terribly mechanically minded, but I seemed to be able to be mine securely hung and was happy to see it came assembled.~To include a little hype here, installation is quick and easy and you simply hang it onto a door frame. I managed to get mine installed and swung on it a few time to see if it would hold, fortunately for me it did, or I might be in bed with a bad back right now.~Just in case you believe this may be a problem, installation of the adult is really simple and it arrives pre-assembled. Remember when the kids were little and they had those jumping things on springs. It fits like that into the doorway, only manufactured for adult use of course.}

{I love having sex, but it is such an adult thing to do and my first experience in the adult swing had me giggling like a schoolgirl. I felt doubly exposed with my feet in the stirrups, and we decided to throw away the instruction manual as it made things a bit too clinical.~Sex is great fun and I enjoy it immensely, it is also very adult and sometimes taken a little more seriously than it should be. If you want a giggle, you will certainly giggle when you try this swing out for the first time, I was laughing hysterically, especially as I felt so exposed with my feet in the stirrups.~People who enjoy sex want to keep on doing it for as long as they can, I know I do. But sometimes the fun is sort of sucked out, sit in the adult swing – naked, and put your feet up in the stirrups, you will soon be giggling like a schoolgirl again with your pussy exposed for all the world to see.}

{We soon got going, swinging back and forth, his cock lapping my pussy every time I came close and soon, he just had to stick it in. The completely weightless feeling of him fucking me while all I needed to do was rock back and forth a little, was unexpectedly delicious and after I got over the giggles we were soon experimenting in a slew if different ways.~The manual seemed a bit clinical so the boyfriend and I threw it away and took out chances with out own creativity on the swing for the first time. Gently swinging back and forth, I could feel his cock just gently lapping my pussy and this really got me started.~We threw the manual away and decided to experiment on our own, so I got in (I could have been back to front for all I knew), and Joey started swinging me, just lapping my pussy with the tip of his cock. That was all it took for me to stop giggling, this fuck was more weightless than any underwater fuck and that was one of my favorites.}

{Me on top, oral sex, lap dances (he likes that) and all kinds of sexy maneuvers, this swing is much better than having sex underwater and for me, that is a big turn on.~He likes it when I lap dance while he sits in the adult swing, but this item makes it simple to do all kinds of experiments with sex, and it is even better than underwater fucking.~I tried lap dancing him and he liked that and wee tried all kinds of other positions too, but we soon realized that we actually needed the manual and rescued it from the garbage.}

{I wouldn’t suggest you throw the manual away like we did, this can actually be a life-saver. We actually had to go and retrieve it from the trash after our first episode in the adult swing, because we realized what a stupid trick it had been to throw it away.~Unfortunately throwing the manual away was not such a good idea and we had to retrieve it from the trash. It contains so many good ideas that we would never have though of, and apart from being stained by a teabag and half a peanut butter sandwich, it was ok after we wiped it down.~After wiping of a bit of this mornings Vegemite toast and a soggy teabag, the manual was actually fin and it helped a lot with our experimentation. There are a lot of ideas that we would never have come up with on out own – so much for being creative types.}

{You can get as creative as you like, but at least with the manual, it helps you get creative where you never before thought it was possible. I hope you love your adult swing as much as I love mine. I keep it on a doorframe between my bathroom and bedroom, so we get some mirror action too.~Get creative and use the manual to guide you like we do, I simply love my new adult swing and I can move it to wherever we feel like doing it. I personally like it outside and in the bathroom where I have full wall mirroring.~My first experience on an adult swing, was one of the sexiest moments of my life. I have only every really felt that exposed for my gynae, but this was fun, that was not. Your life and sex life in particular will never be the same again – go on, spoil yourselves.}

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